MARRIAGE FOR A FAMILY 35-1

After work and come back home, see wife and children, heart very happy, then have not feel tired.

To blame oneself, sky is clean and earth is peace. To blame each other, to turn everything upside down.

Happy way is not that to patient, when husband drink and quarrel noisily, to consider as have not to see that, still carry food plain dishes and praise him. After to accept adversity Philosophically,the husband mental steady and bright, give up the angry temper and indulge in excessive drinking, earnest work also.

Heaven and earth that just as what you think of, treasure now to have on hand, before feeling painful, but now feeling happy.

Marriage is ancestors fate root, do not speek lightly to divorce.

Remember husband and wife relationship, two eyes shed tears, heart sad.

Husband work to faraway, a good wife who,s soul to convey a message to mortal through his dream, to save husband inform in advance.

When young think to rum away home, puberty think to get married, middle age think to leave home, old age think come back home.

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MARRIAGE FOR A FAMILY 35-2

After marriage, love is not oneself only, that is family relationship.
After marriage is not attract each other, that is to support each other.

LADY 3 obey, 4 virtue
3 obey：comply parent in home. married comply husband, husband died comply son.
4virtue：woman virtue, woman talk, woman duty, woman facial appearance.

GENTLEMAN 3obey, 4virtue.
3 obey：wife tell what must be hear, obey, to follow blindly.
4 virtue：wife birthday must be remember, angry must be patient , cosmetic must be wait, spend money must be generous.

Mother send daughter the words：To comply father and mother of husband, and your husband. Stand the patient matter to pass, can be patient that shall be happy.

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MARRIAGE FOR A FAMILY 35-3

1.Faithful, finance steady, call on family.
2.Mother is law look son in law, more like more satistfied.
3.Wedding dress disagree.
4.Furniture disagree
5.Other disagree, suggest please.
6.Engage day correct to be extend date.
7.To break off a marital engagement.
8.Engage and marriage both the same day.
9.Wedding ceremony ready.

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